I have unfortunately been to many funerals in my life. In fact, 30+ family members in as many years. Grief and mourning have always been an interest of mine though I am not at all sure why. I lost my grandmother in 1972 just four days before my 14th birthday and birthdays just never were the same since then. Of course, there were birthday parties from time to time, but that is not the point. The passing of a loved